February 2014, I met with an accident while driving back
from work. It was around 21:30, when a truck hit my car. It crushed driving
side door, bending it inwards. I had shift towards center of the car to avoid
getting hit by the bending door. Seems very scary? It was. I was totally
unharmed barring the mental trauma I went through that night. Interesting fact
of the accident: Both vehicles, my car & the truck which hit me, were stuck
in traffic with little or no room to move. Both of us tried to move ahead with
limited space and I was caught between stand still traffic & this monster
truck which did not see my car.
Being a senior manager at a big corporate, I have a habit of
advising people to get to the root cause and try to control things that fall under
their circle of control or influence. I thought; why not apply the same
principle to this accident and figure out what went wrong. What can I do in
future to avoid it? After much “due diligence”, I concluded to drive more
carefully and leave rest to my luck.
Few months later, morning of 7th July 22, 2014, I
was driving towards my office… Normal speed on relatively empty road, enjoying
good music, accompanied by Amrita, everything “as usual”. I started slowing
down my car as we were approaching a diversion. Just as my car came to halt to
turn, I heard “BAM”… and it wasn't a sweet sound. A taxi rammed into us from
behind. Driver’s excuse; I tried to apply brakes but the car did not stop in
time. Amrita & I stood stunned; moment of silence was followed by an
argument, which isn't relevant for this topic, so let’s move ahead. Yet again,
my thinking cap was on. What went wrong this time? Was I driving too fast? No.
Was I in wrong lane? No. Did I stop too suddenly? No. This time, after much
detailed “due diligence” & “root cause analysis”, I blamed everything on my
luck.
Week later, I was happy that my car was back from service
center. They repaired everything which was damaged plus couple of things which
were not broken but were old. I was prompt in passing on good feedback for my
claim executive. 14th July
22, 2014, on my way back from work, it happened again. You must be laughing,
but believe me, this incidence shook my confidence. There was heavy traffic;
vehicles were barely moving, when a SUV hit my car. Why? Driver accidentally
released brakes. This time, I had no energy to argue, I kept driving.
Over ten years of driving experience, never drove at high
speeds, always cared about slow moving vehicles or pedestrians. Why was my car
hit thrice in the same area within few months? I don’t know. Most of my
well-wishers advised me to get divine blessing. Start visiting temple, focus on
Gods with special powers, hang some stuff in your car to keep evil away, were
some of them. None of them sounded logical but were the only options available,
so I agreed to one of them.
I kept thinking about these accidents over the weekend. Is there
anything I could do to avoid such thing in future? While contemplating about
the reasons of these accidents, I wondered; what if I get stuck in a similar
situation at my work? What if I cannot figure out reasons behind a problem? How
would I be able to correct my action if I don’t know the real issue? Can I blame
everything on luck if nothing works out?
During my 13+ years of professional journey, lot of people
told me I was “lucky”. I was told my success is a result of my good luck. I would
often have people complain about their bad luck and how things never work out
for them. These comments lead me to find more about how few people have good
luck and others don’t.
I stumbled upon an article in 2012 which explains why
some people seem to have all the luck. This article referred to the research
done by Richard Wiseman. Richard is professor of the Public Understanding of
Psychology at the University of Hertfordshire. Richard interviewed several
people who considered themselves very lucky or very unlucky. The results reveal
that although these people had almost no insight into the cause of their luck,
their thoughts & behavior are responsible for much of their fortune. After
several experiments & interviews, Richard claimed to have found the elusive
“luck factors”. 1) Listen to your gut
instincts – they are normally right. 2) Be open to new experiences and breaking
your normal routine. 3) Spend a few moments each day remembering things that
went well. 4) Visualize yourself being lucky before importance meeting or call.
I like Richard’s recommendations. I did apply some of his
suggestions. I find them logical; in fact, I felt I have been practicing couple
of them even before I read this article. So, what if you do everything advised
by Richard and you still don’t get the desired outcome? This question haunted
me for a while. How do I deal with failures in situation where I thought I had enough confidence, enough experience & executed the task with full conviction? Like in the case of my accidents.
My curiosities lead me to another book; "The Success Equation:
Untangling Skill and Luck in Business, Sports, and Investing" by Michael
Mauboussin. I feel Michael untangles several layers of skill & luck, which eventually helps your decision making process. I made an attempt to connect some of his research with current business realities to develop my own simplistic way of explaining factors which contribute or influence outcomes.
More to come....
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